Love Langue

[psalm103:10-13]

As a wife and mother it has helped me tremendously to know my family members love langue. I don

[traveler]

This is really important.  When my bride chooses anger, it is usually because she is afraid.  My response is to start picking up the house while we talk -- because my love language is gifts of service -- but hers is not.  She gets even more angry because "I"m avoiding the issues," when I'm trying to do something kind for her by speaking to her using my love language, not hers.  Her love language is quality time and what she wants more than anything, day or night, driving or shopping, frustrated or angry, is my full, undivided attention and quality time with me.  May seem obvious, but the answer is to sit across from her, look her in the eye, take her by the hand, listen, and engage her in meaningful conversation.  Works like a balm.

[newbie]

undivided attention and quality time

Works for her and for Him (Jesus) too!